Do you think I should be worried?

My husband 30M and I 32F have been together for 8 years, married for 6! We have kids and are happy (mostly).

He works in a predominantly female industry and I’m generally a jealous person. When we first met, he was a huge flirt and everyone who met him fell for him FAST. he always said he never meant to flirt and he never tried. I believe it!

Now he works at a place and two girls won’t stop texting him. Mostly in a group chat, but also 1 on 1. He doesn’t always answer. One day I got so in my head so I snooped. The texts were mostly harmless and about work, but some texts were just unnecessary. Like one of them texted him twice “hey” just to have a convo on the weekend.. I wouldn’t never do that with a man. And then they ask him to get drinks or send him TikTok’s.

Anyway I told him I snooped and have been insecure and in my head and assured me I had nothing to worry about and to trust him. He said if it was a male I wouldn’t be jealous, and he’s right, and told me I have nothing to worry about. I laid down what would make me uncomfortable (calling someone a work wife, anything remotely flirty, or 1 on 1 alone time wit any girl) and he said he agrees completely and to trust him.

I get obsessive about things so I snooped again.. and I saw one of them texted him about this bootleg anime site she tried and said “it’s like a p**n site, a lot of tabs will open up” and idk why but I didn’t like that!! The girls also wrote in a group chat like begging him to go to happy hour even tho they’ve met me once and our kids at our kids birthday knowing he has to come home to us to help me.. they are both married without kids.

I don’t want to tell him I snooped again but I just don’t like this.

Am I wrong? Am I being crazy?