43[M4F]#Nebraska. New Dom looking for sub

I'm newish to this dynamic and want to explore it more. I'm 43 and in Nebraska and would like to find someone local.

I'm looking for something with TPE elements but not necessarily all of it. I believe communication and trust is absolutely necessary with this so I'm not looking to jump right in. I want to learn more about the person behind the sub.

Some of the kinks I have are

Rules and tasks with punishments for disobedience and extreme brattiness

Orgasm control/denial

Almost anything rough- hairpulling, choking, slapping or spanking.

would like to find someone open to be collared.

theres more but my brain is jumbled at the moment.

if you're in Nebraska and this sounds like something you are interested in send me a dm so we can chat.