Bring Up My Fart Fetish with My Partner - Advice/Discussion

My partner (F27) and I (M27) have a great sex life. Recently we’ve even started discussing our kinkier side and talked about a few fetishes we might want to try together to spice things up. However, after hearing several of her fetishes, I noticed most of them were on the more vanilla side.

Although I have never personally experienced many of my fetishes, I know they are my fetishes nonetheless. For example the concepts of being farted on, smelling farts, pee play and many more turn me on to no end. And firmly, I know I don’t want to live my life having never experienced them.

I understand many of these fetishes can be deemed more on the taboo side, and generally aren’t understood or accepted. However, at this stage in my life, I am comfortable with who I am, my sexuality, and what I want to experience in life.

Ultimately, I am looking for several pieces of advice, for specifically my fart fetish, from this subreddit from both the male and female perspectives.

1. I am looking for advice on how to approach this subject with my partner. Letting her know I am serious about these desires, but more important that I only want these desires from her. I don’t want to scare her off or make her uncomfortable in anyway, and I know this is a sensitive/gross topic.

2. (This one is for the women of this subreddit) Are there reasons/ways for her to enjoy this even if this isn’t a fetish for her? Obviously if my partner’s answer is a ‘no’, then that’s the end of the conversation. However, it would be great to be able to have some data/viewpoints to show how she may be able to enjoy it.

3. Assuming the conversation with my partner goes well, as someone who has never experienced this fetish in person, what are the methods and practices to have the most fun and enjoyment for both parties?

Thank you all so much for your time and help! I’m open to all comments to try and embrace this fetish, learn more, and do this right.