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Any E7 women out there feel like they enjoy being in relationships to some extent but also feel like partners kind of dull your shine?

I love my boyfriend, he’s a considerate, attractive, steady guy with his life together. He is a lot more grounded and way more of a homebody.

Prior to being with him, I traveled for work and loved it, made great money, jumped around to different friend groups, had a bunch of hobbies.

Trying to make things work with him, I’ve moved to the area where he lives in a boring place, stopped traveling so much and as a result see my friends less and make less money.

I feel kind of depressed, like my good days of being wild and free are behind me, but I also would like to have a family, and this is a very good, supportive man who would love to be a dad.

7s who settled down, is this what it looks like? was it ok?