I May be in a relationship??

So I’ve been friends with this person (they/them) for maybe around 2 years by now? I haven’t been keeping track compared to my past friendships which already says a lot now that I think about it? Both me and this person are autistic which is important. neither me or this person have met in person yet but we met in in a teen therapy group that have face cams needed so we know what what we both look like. uh this is a bit embarrassing now that I’m typing this out, but i have recently been reading/hanging out with friends who are in relationships and we do everything but kiss and have romantic relations as neither of us are comfy with those types of things (both of us are Acesexual) and I have realized that we are basically in a long distance relationship. I’m not exactly sure what to do? I’m fine with how things are and I’m sure if I brought this up they would get weird (I am male and they like girls, but they basically treat me like a girlfriend?)

i would love some advice, I was told Reddit is where to come when I need some and I dont feel comfy telling anyone in person.