Just feeling grateful

Nothing major to say, just feeling overall grateful for finding this lifestyle. A coworker actually got me into it, she was telling me how she met her husband on Seeking and she was originally seeing two SDs but caught feelings for this one. She knew I just got out of a long term relationship and could see that I would probably be successful in the bowl.

But for real, I found this when I was newly single, and while there was some trial and error in the early days, I took some good advice here, adjusted my expectations, and now pretty much every aspect of my life has improved from it. My house is better, my car is new, my savings account is healthy, I've gotten to travel a ton and I'm even going to London next month, I can treat my girlfriend to dinners and gifts (my SBF actually gets along really well with her and his fixing her car, he said "I can't have my girl's girl driving around town like that, you're on the Arachne coverage plan!"), and I've got a sugar boyfriend who treats me like the sun shines out of my ass. This has all raised my standards so high, I hear my friends and coworkers rant about their shitty husbands and boyfriends and "situationships" and think "damn girl I wouldn't tolerate that from the men who pay to date me, stop doing it for free!"

I know everyone approaches sugaring differently but personally, treating it as Dating+ has been the ticket to success for me. I've turned down higher allowances from men I just couldn't feign interest in. I only had sex once for money when I didn't want to and I realized that was not something I could do. I only date guys I actually like and end it when it's not making me happy anymore. And while I don't mind an older guy, I've actually had some of my most successful arrangements with guys that were only about 10 years older than me.

Like I said, nothing big or important to ask, just don't have many friends IRL I could say this to.