chill servers to join?

I'm trying to join games (preferrably 18+ cause im 18), and I joined the official server but whenever I'd join games I got made fun of for being trans or the people there were just way more experienced than me and I didnt wanna bring the game down.

So basically I'm wondering if anybody has any discord servers that do goose goose duck games that are open to people starting out and are queer inclusive ig ?🦆