My husband 28m and I 26m have two completely different views on loving living situation and I’m not sure how we will ever come to an agreement

I 26F been with my husband 28m coming up on 7 years. For some more context, we met in my home town, we have two children together, I’m a stay at home mom and he works out of the country.

About 3 years ago we moved to his home town because he didn’t like my home town, and I thought I would give it a try, at the time he was still working in Canada but still out on the road. When I had agreed to move to his home town there wasn’t any talk on him working in the states. Fast forward to now , I was constantly left alone trying to raise two kids and I hated it. Told him I wanted to move back home and we did. But he absolutely hates my town and is now constantly trying to convince me to move to the states. He’s worked a lot in Texas and has really taken a liking to living in Texas. My issue is I could honestly never see myself moving there. I like my home town, I have the most support here while trying to raise our two small kids. My family

Has always been really close and my kids have their cousins. I really struggle with the thought of moving away from my family again but I honestly don’t ever see my husband wanting to fully commit to staying here. My husband talks all the time about how great Texas is and I really can’t ever see myself coming to agreement on moving away and I don’t know what to do.

This situation is really starting to affect our relationship and I’m not sure what to do anymore.

I think it makes the most sense to stay where I would have the most support since he works away so I’m solo parenting a lot of the times.

How do we work through something like this?

TL;DR: husband and I can’t agree on where to live, I’m very set on living in my hometown, he’s set on living in the states. Don’t know how to come to an agreement.

Posted Apr 8, 2026, 2:46 AM UTC · locked

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