Emotional unavailability of partner, M31 F33

I was asking my husband that he is emotionally not connected with me

He told me you don’t look beautiful now and don’t give feminine energy.

Cut to that, he is the one who made me into male energy by not giving me girls treatment.

I am living with him after marriage abroad, and home sick like hell but can’t go home due to visa issues.

He is giving every possible reason to justify his actions.

I talked about living separately, he said we don’t do divorce in our culture.

We indeed have no emotional connect, his and his family behaviour has done so much damage to me but no one including him is ready to acknowledge, rather giving lame explanations which make me more angry

How to handle this trauma?

What to do?

**TL;DR;** : I raised emotional disconnection to husband, he said you don’t look beautiful now.