Women of Reddit, how do you view a man who is not flirty at all, but wants a gf?

I dont know how to say this so this is best way to say it.

I am a guy who is good at making women comfortable. in fact, women approach me most times when I am out and about. However, they don't give off apparent flirty cues. Being the guy I am, I just move about my day not really caring until I analyze when I get home.

It wasn't until recently I started to realized that I have alot of moments where women surround me. But I do t get closer to dating. Let me explain.

I just made a post about how a girl willing to share an uber with me. Very random experience and it actually made me uncomfortable since she picked me from the airport. At this same conference, I met another woman who help me network and even single me out at a party. Turns out she was a contestant on the amazing race and wad LA popular. Yet she was talking to me throughout the conference. I didn't know any of that until I got home. Very sweet woman. I wouldn't have know she was basically a celebrity but it was obvious in her mannerism though. she was too polish like she was giving a speech lol.

Then I rode down with two women from my grad school. They were so comfortable with me that they trust me to get them home from a bar late at night. I even brought them shots.

Last example, I was out with a friend 2 weeks ago and two random women brought me into their convos. They were talking about icks about men lol. They even got the bartender involved.

Here's the thing though, I am chronically single. I struggle with dating (more like I don't ask women out and flirt) But I find it funny that I spend alot of time with women naturally and very attractive women as well. The thing is in the moment I never care. I Just focus on wanting to have fun. like in the examples I mention, I really wanted to drink and dance and not flirt. I would have been that way if they were men.

But I notice that women don't really hit on me and Guys are the ones who end up getting my number or trying to connect pass an event. So what is going on?