Why is abortion considered good?

I just realized that I’m anti abortion but I haven’t really considered what pro abortion people are talking about. For context I am 14 years old livingin the northeast but I still watched a lot of Ben Shapiro and Charlie Kirk so I was conservative (until recently now I am a liberal). Some policies like abortion I still lean to the right. Also I believe that if there is rape then you can do an abortion or if the mothers life is in danger.

Here are my reasons: If a teenager is responible enough to drive a car then shouldnt they be responsible enough to know about protection and things? In school we learned sex ed starting in middle school.

2: Why can’t you just buy a condom, it’s not that expensive.

3: Its proven that women who get abortions are more likely to suicide or go into depression

4: If you don’t want it then why don’t yougive it to adoption after birth there are 2 million couples who want to adopt in America.

5: Why don’t men have a choice if it takes two people to make one?

Edit: this is the source I used https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39838528/

ngl I’m gonna think and research abt the stuff u guys gave me thanks for the response and I think I do agree with you guy.