Wanting a girlfriend isn't an obsession

Acting like neet men or men in general are "obsessed" or ridiculous for wanting a girlfriend or needing a relationships isn't a good argument. What makes you actually think that men wouldn't desire sex, love, intimacy or a relationship and that they shouldn't even need it by any means?. And by no means am I arguing that neet men deserve girlfriends. I don't even think women are worth it to begin with but that doesn't negate the desire, suffering and attachment that women have on men. Stop acting like it's not natural for men to crave women. Men would be better off if women didn't exist in this case if they can't interact with them in any meaningful way. I know I would feel better if I didn't have to deal with the emotional pain that women inflict on men.

How many employed people do you think are gonna be happy and productive without relationships or intimacy? You're gonna have a low desire society in that case the likes of a behavioral sink. I promise you most people are gonna have issues with surviving at work without relationships. And yes some people would stop being a neet if they could have a loving wife and maybe kids. Its impossible to fill that void without resorting to maladaptive measures like porn, alcohol , food, etc because that's all you have left to not feel completely numb and in pain. You suffer in silence and you either cope with it or it copes with you.

I know it's a thing on reddit to mock men for all their problems and show no empathy but let's not be stupid here, at least try harder to be a misandrist. Its always the same dumb response to this like don't rely on someone for your happiness, or nobody owes you anything or they wont fix all your problems blah blah blah doesn't change the fact that men are suffering and need relationships.

We live in a hyper sexualized, isolating, lonely society, with romance and sex pervasive in all media, and you wonder why men with nothing to speak off are obsessed as human beings? Seriously? Come up with some new material its getting old and no I don't care if I get down voted, disregarded or tldr. If I wanted upvotes on reddit I would put some stupid catchy meme or cater to women.