Is there something wrong with me?

I am a 19 year old male and I would say my whole life I've been pretty angry. As of late it's been pretty bad where I have waves of anger or sadness without explanation. I feel like I could punch a whole in the wall. It's to the point where the mere presence of my roommate brings so much anger into my heart. On top of that I have a hard time being empathetic to others to the point where the thought of it makes me cringe; especially toward my family. I don't show my emotions and my face always looks like I'm mad all the time(which for the most part is true). People tell me I've always had a cold nature to myself. My mom says she didn't do a good job raising me due to this fact. Can anyone relate and how did you get through it?