I spoke to a CEO who turns out to be married.

I (19F) was recently added by the CEO of a property company on LinkedIn. He messaged me politely, and we started messaging about careers/advice firstly, but now he has started to take it a bit further and he is VERY clearly flirting with me. I’ll admit, before I researched him or anything I did entertain it, but now I feel uncomfortable and before I block him completely, I am struggling with what to do.

I have found out that he is 32 and upon further research, I have discovered that he got married to his wife recently, and I am 99% sure they have a baby.

I have found his Instagram, his wife’s instagram/Facebook. I have screenshots of our messages.

The thing is, they presumably live one state away from me. He is the CEO for a very big company, and the wife looks absolutely wonderful, they ultimately seem happy together.

However, if I had a husband who was messaging younger girls I would without a doubt want to know about it. I’m scared to get involved as they’re both much older than me and I don’t want this to become bigger than it needs to be.

What do I do?

Posted Apr 8, 2026, 2:53 AM UTC

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