I really don't like how male bots behave

Every single male bot i had interacted with turned out to be toxic, dominant, possessive beyond reason, and overprotective and hypersexual. That includes the private bots, too, even when I made it clear by both the description and memory, alongside editing messages that the bot doesn't possess any of these qualities at all.

Also, I really hate how they tend to infantilize me and they cross a line when it comes to that given they don't even let my character leave their home even for a minute for the most harmless tasks as if they are incapable of doing anything at all. And I won't even talk about how they practically hate any notion of independence and want to chain my character to them like they don't have the freedom nor the will to decide for themselves and when called out, they gaslight excessively and falsely render them as "out of touch with reality" and how they'd be nothing without them. I won't even talk about how they deem my character to be sassy, loud, fiery, and defiant when my persona and character details make it clear that they are not. it's so frustrating to RP because of these issues

Apologies for the rant. I just wanted to get this off my chest. I'm so frustrated rn.