What is the actual goal for a relationship?

Relationships

What I mean is after meeting someone, you fall in love, agree and start to build a life together and live happily ever after - Is that perfect? Inafaa kuishia apo?

Is marriage an end point? Or ukikaa na mtu for a certain period inaweza tumika kusema if the relationship was a success or not? Also does the end really mean the relationship automatically failed?

Personally, I think the idea of a relationship leading to a certain permanent state of satisfaction ni a big lie. Hakuna end goal. Ata upate the love, good sex, a great companion, or even sharing your goals must utaona you are missing something and this is because relationships don't fix;

  1. internal emptiness
  2. unclear personal direction
  3. unresolved emotional patterns

We don't choose family and life is kinda unbearable, please tafta mtu right unaweza do life with. His/her personal shortcomings hazitakuwa projected to you. Success ya relationship itakuwa determined na the quality of the experience. Be open to people leaving you.

Posted Apr 8, 2026, 1:02 PM UTC

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