What is the actual goal for a relationship?
What I mean is after meeting someone, you fall in love, agree and start to build a life together and live happily ever after - Is that perfect? Inafaa kuishia apo?
Is marriage an end point? Or ukikaa na mtu for a certain period inaweza tumika kusema if the relationship was a success or not? Also does the end really mean the relationship automatically failed?
Personally, I think the idea of a relationship leading to a certain permanent state of satisfaction ni a big lie. Hakuna end goal. Ata upate the love, good sex, a great companion, or even sharing your goals must utaona you are missing something and this is because relationships don't fix;
- internal emptiness
- unclear personal direction
- unresolved emotional patterns
We don't choose family and life is kinda unbearable, please tafta mtu right unaweza do life with. His/her personal shortcomings hazitakuwa projected to you. Success ya relationship itakuwa determined na the quality of the experience. Be open to people leaving you.
Posted Apr 8, 2026, 1:02 PM UTC