Looking for eyeshadow primer recommendations and how to use them

I have pigmented eyelids, I’ve tried 1 shade lighter, 1 shade darker and also my exact match concealer for priming my eyes before eyeshadow, though it works with darker shades of brown, it doesn’t work with shades of pink, it looks greyish. Any suggestions?

My eyeshadow routine is spf > concealer > powder > eyeshadow. Eyeshadows last fine on my eyes with good prep, I just need help with pink shades.

TIA