anyone got healthy relationship with their parents?

parents will hurt, emotionally deprive, blackmail, manipulate, humiliate, and psychologically disturb your privacy and peace , and then say, "why don't our children spend time with us? "

I go to the job, early in the morning even before office time to stay away from parents, and try to come home late. when I get back home I spend my time in my room.

then I feel I should spend time with parents they are getting old, when I do go downstairs and sit with them, they'll start with money, how much do u make and start comparing me with Khala ka beta, who is 25 years older than me. or Maamu ka beta who's also 10-12 years older than me.

then start suggesting me to give full salary in my home, even though it's not needed.

my dad will lift random heavy things at house and when he falls down he'll start bickering,"mere bachay nahi poochtay"

and my mother will start telling how much expensive it was to bring me up in this world and I should return all the money they spent on bringing me up... as if it were my choice to be born.

Don't forget to mix Islam in this bullshit, so when they realize they're wrong they can say, "Jannat Maa k qadmo talay hai", yaa phir, " baap jannat ka darwaza hai"... like they deserve jannat ul firdous, just because they became parents.

IT'S A FUCKING RESPONSIBILITY TO HAVE KIDS, AND IF YOU'RE NOT PSYCHOLOGICALLY READY TO BE PARENTS, DON'T REPRODUCE.

I'm just saving money at this point so I can either rent an apartment or a room in a hostel when I do get enough money I'll go no contact.

I've had enough.