Don't make the same little mistake I did
I’ve always had a tight foreskin. When I was younger, I thought it was normal and that it would eventually go away on its own. Then, when I turned 16 or 17, I realized that probably wasn’t going to happen. The problem is, I didn’t really do anything about it. Since I was a couch potato for a long time anyway and didn’t really have much to do with women, I kind of ignored it, since masturbating still worked even with phimosis.
Now that I’m in my mid-20s, I’ve been interacting with women more and more and have started to address the problem. My foreskin was very, very tight at first.. I couldn’t even pull it back when I was flaccid. It took a few weeks before I could do it when flaccid, and after a few months, I managed to pull my foreskin a little over the glans even when erect, even though it was still very tight. It works relatively well now, but I’ve noticed a problem that I hardly paid attention to before. The frenulum...
That was also significantly shortened, or rather, it still is. I now have a FWB whom I’ve met up with four times already, and I’ve noticed that my frenulum is causing problems. The foreskin retracts relatively well past the glans, but it’s still held back quite a bit by the frenulum, which in turn makes my penis appear a little smaller, and also makes it difficult for me to maintain a full erection.
It’s a little frustrating, to be honest, but at least she gets it and is being careful.
Anyway, what I’m trying to say is: stretch your frenulum too! Because your foreskin can be as wide as you want, but if the frenulum is too short, it won’t do any good, unfortunately, that’s what I’ve come to realize.
I’m currently working hard on stretching my frenulum and hope it’ll be much better in a few weeks!
Posted Apr 8, 2026, 2:33 PM UTC