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Edit- I’ve made an update post and I’m waiting for its review by mods so until then quit accusing me of deleting the update because of backlash and oh also quit sending death threats to a 15 y/o 😘

My (15f) parents have 2 foster kids (siblings) that are 10f and 6m living with us for over 2 years in an extended placement. My parents wont tell me their background but I think it has to do with neglect. Although I tried to like living with them I really don’t because they’re disruptive and attention seeking (especially the 10f)

I have gotten along decently well with previous placements, I even begged my mom to adopt this boy we had placed with but he’s gone back to his mum. I’m especially annoyed to the point of hating 10f because she’s loud and has zero sense of personal space and keeps barging in ANYTIME I try to talk to my parents alone (especially my mom) and keeps screaming in my face “my mommy”. All of which are probably normal for a 7 y/o but 10? Idk. And ik she has her trauma issues and all that but I feel like my mom does enable it too but I put up with the because at first my mom said it’s only temporary but now I think their reunification isn’t happening anymore so my parents want to adopt them but I really don’t want them to and I don’t see them as a sibling. When we meet with their caseworker to proceed with the adoption my mom said they’ll ask me if I’m willing to be their sibling and aita if I say no?

I have tried multiple times but it’s either the 10f immediately throwing a fit at the slightest hint I’m upset with her or it’s my mom with her usual “think of what we can give her she needs stability she’s too attached (attached with my mom not with me btw)”

TLDR i think I’ll be the TA because although these kids aren’t attached to me theyre attached to my parents and my parents won’t take my word over theirs