Has anyone hired a virtual assistant to help support an aging parent?

I’m trying to figure out a sustainable way to support my mom from a distance, and I’m considering hiring a virtual assistant. I have been spending about 15 to 20 hours per week supporting her while working part-time. Pretty soon I will be starting a full-time job and will need support.

What I’m thinking is someone who would:

  • Call her every morning to check in (how she’s feeling, how she slept, etc.)
  • Ask if she needs anything and keep a shared shopping list
  • Remind her about appointments
  • Send me a quick summary after each call
  • Be available occasionally if she has a non-urgent concern

Important context: this would be non-medical.

Has anyone done something like this? I'm specifically interested in anyone who may have used a VPA (virtual personal assistant) vs. something more local.

Thanks!

Posted Apr 9, 2026, 7:53 PM UTC

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