I'm struggling with how much work is in front of me

Divorcing after 3+ years, I've moved out, got an Apartment, I'm slowly getting everything organized, getting internet, building furniture etc.

But I just know there's so much more in front of me before I feel whole or can seek the life I want again. I need to figure out the story I tell to the next person I date, I have to buy all the furniture and accoutrements to make my apartment feel like my home, I have to tell everyone in my life piecemeal and have the same conversations a dozen times.

I just want to fast forward to feeling whole again and right now I feel like I just don't see the way to happy.