Caught my husband
tldr: caught my husband recording a girl who was changing in her apartment opposite to our building. What should I do now?
I F31, found a video in my husbands M31 recently deleted folder. I’m not stupid to ask anyone what this means as even a blind individual can tell he’s recording the girl. I have never suspected him in my entire life and could not for the life of me expect this from him. I was in the folder to retrieve a picture I had just accidentally deleted when I saw this.
He insists he was capturing the flowers and didn’t even know there was a girl(the kind of man he is he couldn’t give two shits about even flowers of gold- his camera was following her). I know men make things up when they’re caught and test the intelligence of their partner but I never thought I’d experience this myself.
I was 5 weeks postpartum when he made this video.
Infidelity of any kind has been a very hard line between us and we’ve been together for 15 years.
What should I do now?
I’ve worked really hard in life and been 100% sincere and faithful and have always supported him. This has completely shattered everything for me.
It might not seem something very big to some but the relationship I share or I thought I did, never had any space for such stuff.
What should be my action from here? My husband is not accepting what he did which is making things worse for me.
Posted Apr 9, 2026, 7:57 PM UTC · locked