31 [M4F] #Seattle/Online - Pretty Boy In Control Looking to Lose It.

Good afternoon to any who would read this. I tend to get overly chatty in these type of posts, but I would like to try and nail down the specifics early.

The short version is that I am a man fully in control of his own life. Good job, plenty of therapy, great friends, hobbies galore, and a bastion for my egalitarian values.

I am looking for someone who wants a sub that isn't completely obsessed with them, but at a simple call can be in that mode immediately. I would like someone who is willing to take my entire life away from me for hours at a time, and let me float on their whim.

If any of that is evocative to you, the more descriptive version is below!

###More about me:

On a regular day, you probably couldn't pick me out of a crowd. Average height, slim build, and a penchant for soft clothes. I have been called pretty/handsome depending on the outfit, and that certainly is more the case when I seek to impress. Soft face, high cheekbones, strong hairline, no facial hair. I am bi, and it gets me the worst of both worlds, as both sides believe I am into the other due to my confidence and nonchalance. I tend to find more physical and emotional attraction to femme individuals, and this D/s relationship gets the best of both worlds. I find simple pleasure in the mundane parts of my life, as I have definitely lived way more personally interesting times, and I am happy to just be stable now. I tend to liken myself to a bodega cat, living my life and enjoying the regularity, but never opposed to attention and a firm hand.

I take care of myself, and I like to take care of others. That stretches to the two sides of my kink life the service and the submissive. I don't claim the tag of bottom, as I find much more enjoyment is being active in the participation of whatever may be happening. Service is the part that runs counter to that and why I don't find being a pure bottom a goal. I want to do things for people, make them feel things, and work my magic. That doesn't limit me to pure topping though, as I am happily a crash test dummy for any and all more controlling acts. All of that is far more fluid, and as long as the other person is having fun, I'm always present and available.

###Who you may be:

I have never been able to pin down particular life/emotional statuses of the people I find evocative. I've found companionship with some of the most well-structured people and the biggest disasters (myself included), so I will at least put some simple guardrails here. One of the green lights I'd like to put here though is any and all experience. I feel like people can ascribe themselves to only playing "at their skill level", and I am wholly against that idea. If you want to learn with me, great. If you want to teach me new things, also great.

- If you would like something online, grace and compromise for both of us is a priority. Its definitely more difficult to control outside factors of two environments.

- I am as devoted to physical attraction as I am emotional. Here is an initial picture of me that I like to use (https://imgur.com/a/rrmQWO2), and I would also ask that you be willing to confirm yourself.

- You are not looking for a fling or a quick thing. I would like to learn and grow with you for some time.

- You like cats. My two are non-negotiable to my life, and my dommes when no one else is.

I am probably forgetting something here, but I find my barriers for entry to be quite low. I like people, and I like to let them be themselves.

##If you are down here reading, I hope you found this engaging. Send me a message, even if you aren't actively looking. I'm always happy for friends to talk to.