45 [M4F] Looking to talk about kinks and fantasies in the most vulgar manner possible.

TLDR version: I’m a married dad in an open marriage hoping for long term dirty pen pals who want to have extremely vulgar chats about our kinks and fantasies, and also about our day to day. I tend to like to get know people as whole complete individuals, and not just their sexuality. Though the sex part is super fun.

 

Full disclosures first: I am in sort of an amicable dead bedroom situation. I’m hesitant to mention that as it often connotes resentment and bitterness, but that’s not the case here. My wife is aware that I have naughty chats on reddit and as we have experience with ethical nonmonogamy, she’s good with me scratching my itches elsewhere both virtually and IRL.

 

Also, I want to be up front that while I do have some weird and possibly problematic kinks and fantasies, I really don’t like dark and violent stuff like extreme bdsm, humiliation and degradation, CNC etc. I exist in the world as a non-rich person, so I get my fair share of humiliation and degradation via capitalism. Also, consent is sexy, and enthusiastic, eager, needy consent is irresistible.

 

I like weird, vulgar kinks, but done in a fun, playful way.

 

The less weird stuff I’m into includes: all things related to good old fashioned bare cock in wet cunt sex that ends in the messiest of creampies, all manner of group sex, titty fucking (even if she has small tits) and lot’s of groping.

 

Consensual groping only of course, but I love being able to get aggressively handsy when it’s wanted. Pulling a woman onto my lap to enjoy nice handfuls of tits and cunt is almost as good as fucking.

 

Now for the weirder and possibly problematic stuff.

 

I adore hairy cunts and armpits and have a related scent kink. Not as in liking a week old hobo-like funk, but a good natural scent like at the end of a workday or first thing in the morning. I have a fantasy of burying my face between a woman’s legs and edging myself to her scent while slowly licking her to orgasm.

 

I’m a bit curious about some mild pee play stuff. Nothing so extreme as drinking or peeing in someone’s face, but I do find it hot to watch and wonder what it would be like to have a woman pee on my hard cock.

 

Having my balls played with kinda rough. I do like a bit of pain mixed in sometimes and there’s something exhilarating about letting a woman go a bit wild with my balls. Nothing extreme like in ball busting porn, but enough so that I can’t think of anything else in the moment.

 

And for my most controversial one, interracial sex with a strong attraction to brown girls.

It’s not an exclusive attraction as there are plenty of white women I’m very attracted to, but there’s just something about the sight of brown skin and dark nipples that make me lose higher brain function for a bit. I’m not into race play or anything like that, I’m just attracted to physical traits and the visual contrast of interracial sex is ultra hot.

 

So, if anyone wants a crude chat with a middle aged perv, hit me up.