Why did you decide to become a Surrogate?

I’ve been curious to learn more about the “why” behind the choice to become a surrogate.

If you’ve been a gestational carrier (or are seriously considered it), what made you take that step?

Was it something personal, like seeing someone close to you struggle to build a family?
Or was it more about wanting to help in a really tangible way?

I’m especially curious how you thought about the emotional side going in vs. what it actually felt like during and after.

No right or wrong answers here. I’d just really value hearing real experiences from people who’ve lived it.

Disclosure: I am not affiliated with any surrogacy agency. I am currently building a community focused on fertility journeys and I moderate r/IndependentSurrogacy.

Posted Apr 9, 2026, 8:02 PM UTC

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