[F4F] 30-USA / LF ONLINE+

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I posted a couple days ago but got nervous and took it down. So, Trying this again!

I’m pretty lonely and my area doesn’t have a very high queer population, and I’m a bit of a homebody as it is so it’s near impossible to get out and meet anyone. I'm also super exhausted from all the dating apps and unicorn-hunting couples.

**About Me:**.

30 cisF.

Fem4Fem from the US Pacific Northwest.

ADHD haver but medicated so my life is coming together, but it still comes with its challenges and I’d love to find someone who won’t judge me for being further behind in life than her.

I really love video games! See if you can guess which ones! (I have a bit of a competitive spirit and a drive to collect things).

I’m 6' tall, which I realize is a bit unusual, but thems the breaks. I’d like to say I’m fairly attractive, but I am also deceptively geeky. This has led to some confusion while trying to date offline. (I’m sure you can imagine the comments).

l’m strictly monogamous, and not really a fan of anything else. I hate cheaters and people who play mind games.

I have long brown hair and intense eyes, and I've been told I can come across as a bit intimidating, but I promise I'm just a big ol' goofball at heart. I can admittedly be a little picky, but I’m honestly so weak for a pretty fem 💕

I'm seeking someone who shares my love for video games, nerdy fandoms, and an affinity for cats (unfortunately, **dogs are a no-go** for me, with the odd exception of Huskies/Malamutes. I love those). If you're into uncommon pets like tarantulas or snakes, I also consider that a major green flag! It’s a tad hard for me to relate with people who don’t at least have an interest in learning about games.

I’m a big language fanatic. I’m currently learning my third language (Japanese) for about 3-4 years, and my fourth language (Korean) for about 4 months. My second language was French which I learned ages ago and am a bit out of practice of but still understand. If you speak any of those, let me know!

I'm decidedly childfree. Family planning isn't in my cards, as I'm not looking to have kids EVER in the future, but I do absolutely adore them. I envision being the fun, gift-giving aunts to my niece and nephews!

I’m very against tobacco use, so please be a non-smoker. Alcohol and Weed are ok in my book however.

I’m also an atheist, and being around theistic people is rather an uncomfortable situation for me. Specifically, abrahamic religions are dealbreakers for me.

If any of this resonates with you and you're up for the adventure of discovering more about each other, I'd love to hear from you.

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Posted Apr 9, 2026, 9:09 PM UTC

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