34 [M4F] #Online - Complete ownership and extreme discipline methods. Let's find out how deep your submission can go.

I have tried a lot of things in the past, different types of dynamics with different types of subs. What I'm currently looking for is going to be a new experience with components I'm already familiar with, and I know I need to find a sub who's very unique. I hope you're that sub.

I don't have all the details worked out. I never go into anything knowing the whole plan. I have a high level idea of what it's going to be like, but there are a lot of unknowns, and the biggest one is you. I will tailor everything to your specific situation, your personality, your life. However, I'll share the main idea, so you can see how that fits into your own plans.

Imagine a deep ownership with a strict structure, extreme discipline methods that keep you way outside of your comfort zone every single day. Restrictions in terms of what you can wear, eat, drink, how you can spend your time. Not being allowed to use cutlery to eat, showering in cold water, sleeping on the floor, and taking away another luxuries you take for granted. Having to give up your privacy whenever I decide that I want to see you getting dressed, taking a shower or even using the toilet. Giving up full sexual control, including when and how you masturbate and cum, giving up on having sexual relations with anyone. Having an owner who knows everything about you, your deepest fantasies, secrets, insecurities, fears, everything.

Of course, I'm not saying that I expect all of that on a daily basis. I'm also not saying that you'll never be allowed to eat snacks, sleep in bed or have a nice, hot shower anymore. Some of these things would be temporary, others would be permanent, and obviously, you have a say in everything, especially in the early stages. I don't expect to gain complete control right away, the initial period will be about getting to know each other, determining the route we're going to take, laying down the foundations, and seeing if we can make this work together. The previous paragraph was just a general overview of what I'm looking for, what you can expect, and a few specific examples of the things I have in mind.

In terms of sexuality/kinks, I'm looking for someone who has an "I'll try anything once or twice" attitude. I won't say I'm looking for a sub with no limits because there's no such thing, but outside of the ones I set, ideally, you're open to anything else. The guaranteed limits: involving others in our play, permanent damage, needles/cutting/blood, any form of public exposure (in person or online), blackmail (that can be negotiated in the future in a consensual role play kind of way if it's your thing).

I'm not extremely picky, everyone starts with an equal chance. That being said, the effort you put into your first message can make or break those chances. I think it's clear that all of this requires a certain amount of your free time, you need to be in a living situation where you can commit to something like this, and it's a very serious long-term arrangement that requires certain personality traits. Being shy at first isn't an issue, I'm a patient man, but you need to be able to open up eventually. Ideally, you have a relatively high sex drive and you have a bit of an exhibitionist in you because you will be expected to provide a good amount of proof photos/videos. In terms of experience, it's fine if you're a complete beginner. I know this can be scary as a first dynamic, but we will build everything up slowly.

In my opinion, this dynamic is pretty much a dream in two main cases: 1, if you're looking to make significant changes in your day-to-day life and need someone who isn't afraid to be very strict (or even cruel) with you to ensure you change your behavior/habits or 2, if you enjoy being hurt both physically and mentally. For the right person, this has a lot of potential to be life-changing. The question is: are you ready for that change?