I started texting animal noises and think I messed up
I need some advice. I (32m) have never dated before, and finally decided to give online dating a try. I could only match with younger women (idk why) , so I finally gave in and planned a first date with this girl "Zoe" (f20).
we we're having a good conversation and had our date planned out, but I didn't want to have her get bored beforehand because it was a couple days out. I figured because she was young I'd be spontaneous. So I text her "quack quack" outta the blue and thinking it was funny, like a duck. she just responded with "What?". I got a bit nervous and doubled down with the joke and text "mooooo", and now she hasn't text me back. I waited about a day and tried again with a dog noise but got anxious so I finally text her I was just kidding but still no response.
now I'm depressed thinking I just blew my only shot at ever getting a girlfriend. why did it think that was a good idea? idk but I need help and advice.
Posted Apr 9, 2026, 9:16 PM UTC