35M4F | South Asian | Toronto (GTA) | Looking for something real (even if it starts as friendship)

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hi Reddit (old account is lost)

Putting myself out here — not something I do often, but life has taught me that sometimes you just have to try.

I’m a 35-year-old South Asian guy, 6 ft tall, based in Durham Region and working in Peel. I went through a separation in 2025, and over the past year I’ve taken the time to reset, reflect, and understand myself better. I’m now in a place where I value peace, emotional stability, and genuine connection more than anything else.

I’m not rushing into anything intense — I’m open to starting with friendship and seeing where things naturally go.

A bit about me

Professionally stable (finance leadership role); calm, grounded, and emotionally aware; not into drama or chaos — I genuinely value simplicity and mutual respect; I enjoy good conversations, long drives, and traveling (I can be a great travel companion if we end up being something 🙂)

I’m hoping to find:

Someone in the 32–38 age range; independent, emotionally mature, and self-aware; south Asian preferred (just for cultural alignment, not a hard rule); someone who understands that life isn’t perfect and any relationship take patience and perspective; values peace over constant conflict; I’m not here for games, and I respect honesty — even if it’s not what someone wants to hear;

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. Even a genuine conversation or friendship is a great place to start.

Thanks for reading 🙏