56 [M4F] #Iowa #Midwest married discreet male looking for ongoing relationship
Hi and sorry for the long post! I’m a mature married professional man in a dead bedroom who feels like a passenger in life. Seeking a woman in a similar situation who is also missing the passion and excitement of a new relationship.
Prefer someone HWP/average, 42+, confident, discreet, within a reasonable driving distance from north eastern Iowa and open for a genuine connection. Please be emotionally open because feelings will get entangled.
I’m a 56 married male 6’0”, 205, fit-ish, HWP and I have a really nice ass (not a dad bod or a gym rat) 😉. DDF, non smoker, social drinker. Overall just a good Midwestern guy looking for a girl next door type.
Honesty is very important for this to work out. I know all of us on here hiding a large secret but I ask for honesty between us. I am extremely laid back and not here to play games or bring more drama into our lives. Emotions can get intense, so I promise to be open and honest, hopefully you can to.
If there is a connection between us, I can promise I’ll give it my all. I also love texts during the day and hopefully you do to. I know we have lives to live but making time for each other is important and a requirement for me.
I'm not looking for perfect, but be honest, kind, and real. Please put your state in your response so i know you have at least read my post.
DMs open, so let’s see if we can ignite some fire within and feel alive again.
Posted Apr 9, 2026, 9:19 PM UTC