33 [F4A] #VA/MD/WV/DMV - BBW submissive looking for LTR with soft and nerdy Dominant

I am a 33F, BBW sub, from the Winchester VA area. I am looking for an in-person ltr, within two hours tops from me. I am seeking bdsm in the bedroom only. I cannot host. I am monogamous and pansexual.

I am seeking someone that is kind and caring who can also hold a conversation (read: ask questions about me sometimes). I am a chatterbox and would like a chatterbox to talk to. If you enjoy being goofy one second and talking about complex sociopolitical ideals the next, you may be just what I am looking for! I have no particular physical preference. Couple of full body pics available on my profile as I am big, as stated.

I tell people I have kid sister energy. I can be loud, annoying, and a little bit of a bully in my day to day life. I am affectionately mean to people I like and welcome gentle teasing in return. I also offer a lot of care and affection and am constantly thinking of my partner, finding little things to make them happy, whether it be a trinket or a silly video or a meme. I am funny, sarcastic, and intelligent. I take care of the people in my life and have a lot of responsibilities. I enjoy letting loose and just being a silly goose sometimes.

Sexually, I am looking for a Dominant to put me in my place in the bedroom. I love pet play, cnc, bondage, giving oral, M/s dynamics, and a thousand other things. My hard nos are eating ass, blood, scat, incest play, age or race play, anything public, and extreme pain. I am not interested in receiving oral. I am very open to trying new things, however, and will happily discuss various kinks once I know someone better. I am mostly a pleasure sub I think with some brattiness mixed in.

I want kink in the bedroom only. I am not interested in TPE beyond free use (within reason). There are some power exchange practices I would be willing to do though. But I will not call you by your title in public or engage in Dom/sub dynamics in front of people. I am not meek and quiet. I enjoy giving my Dominant pleasure and submission but behind closed doors only. I am a chaotic goblin in my day to day.

I am a nerd outside of kink. I love video games, especially cozy games like Stardew Valley. I adore Legend of Zelda (windwaker is best), I play mostly switch games but am excited to play more computer games now that my computer is up and running again. I loved Achievement Hunter and Funhaus back in the day. I watch a lot of people like Danny Gonzalez, Drew Gooden, that sort of commentary channel.

I enjoy cottagecore things. Antiques, farm markets, little cats frolicking in meadows. Period dramas like Pride and Prejudice are my go to media. My favorite shows are The Pitt, The Apothecary Diaries, The Good Place, Fleabag, Bridgerton.

I want a very kinky lifestyle but also someone to talk to and hang with. I enjoy the quieter side of life. I am looking for someone to be soft for, I am too bristly. Please be interesting and be able to hold a conversation.

Please be older than 30, about two hours or less from me. I do not do hook ups or one night stands. Reminder, I cannot host. If any of this interests you, feel free to reach out!