Hey guys i need financial and legal advice

so i have an extremely strict and overbearing father like im not allowed to get a legal education, to drive, a checking account, college, or a job. i am 17 and in my senior year and need money for college. are there any legal loop holes? my mother does not want to divorce him either. do i have ANY rights when it comes to personal and educational freedoms? i am deeply anxious and concerned for my future like this man is the epitome of controlling and cant fathom me having my own independence. any advice is welcomed and would be deeply appreciated :((