Explaining yourself to people who already decided who you are is just wasted energy

It happens again and again... Why bother trying to convince people who've already made up their minds about you??

It's a total waste of your energy....and no amount of explanation is going to change it so focus on the people who actually care to understand you...and let go of the need to justify yourself to those who aren't listening.

When you can control this you live in peace and no one can control you.