I dont understand the obsession some ftms have with girlhood

Coldest take oat but idk regardless it makes no sense to me. I get maybe if you transitioned at 50 and lived your whole life as a lesbian before that then yeah ig itd make sense if you wanted to cling to it but Ive seen so many guys saying understanding the female experience is something you have built into you by being born a woman and it makes no fucking sense. I'm not gonna claim to have any good knowledge on what women go through but from what I've had female friends tell me it sounds pretty shite and I dont understand why a man would want to cling onto it so badly