56 [M4F] #Iowa #Midwest discreet married male looking for long term connection

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Hi and sorry for the long post! I’m a mature married professional man in a dead bedroom who feels like a passenger in life. Seeking a woman in a similar situation who is also missing the passion and excitement of a new relationship. Emotions can get intense, so I promise to be open and honest, hopefully you can to.

Prefer someone HWP/average, 42+, confident, discreet, within a reasonable driving distance from north eastern Iowa and open for a genuine connection. Please be emotionally available because feelings will get entangled.

56 married male 6’0”, 205, fit-ish, HWP and I have a really nice ass (not a dad bod or a gym rat) 😉. DDF, non smoker, social drinker. Overall just a good Midwestern guy.

Honesty is very important for this to work out and I know all of us on here hiding a large secret, but I ask for honesty between us. I am laid back and not here to play games or bring more drama into your life.

If there is a connection between us, I will promise to give it my all. I also love texts during the day and hopefully you do to. I know we have lives to live but making time for each other is important and a requirement for me.

I'm not looking for perfect, but be honest, kind, and real.

Let’s see what trouble we can find together.

Posted Apr 10, 2026, 12:44 AM UTC

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