Ttc with a partner who drinks/smokes
Hey everyone, I’m seeing if anyone has been in my shoes.
I had my BC removed late last August and we’ve been trying since. I’m pretty on top of my side of things—I track my ovulation using LH strips and BBT, so I’m definitely confirming that I’m ovulating every cycle. I rarely drink, though I do smoke weed and have the occasional cigarette.
My main concern right now is my partner’s habits. He’s a big drinker and smoker, and he’s been doing it for a long time. He has cut down a bit lately, but honestly, it’s not enough to make me feel great about it. He doesn't seem as worried as I am, but he’s drinking a minimum of 6 beers a night (usually about a carton a week). They aren't full-strength, but it’s still a lot of alcohol consistently.
I’m starting to worry about the long-term effects all that drinking might have had on his side of things, and if it’s going to make this a much longer road for us.
We’re both young (23 and 24), so I’m hoping age is on our side. Has anyone here had a partner with similar long-term habits? no judgmental comments.
Thanks in advance! ❤️
Posted Apr 10, 2026, 12:44 AM UTC