Articles of Faith

Asking “Do they care?” is the wrong question. The only question that matters is “What did they do and what are they doing?”

You’re not wrong or too much for following hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary development in seeking a bond. Don’t let anyone gaslight you into believing you were unreasonable to bond.

You aren’t responsible for other adults’ behavior.

You can’t change or save anyone.

Love is a choice, not a feeling. Feelings fade, love doesn’t.

Them choosing you won’t heal you.

You’re alive and you can start over.