I'm an introvert who is interested in goths, but don't know where to start

So I'm a bit anxious in asking for advice, and am second guessing if this is the right forum, but here it goes. I'm 21 years old. I'm a stoner who enjoys music and pro wrestling. I've been wanting to explore dating, but am looking for a fellow introvert. It's led me to being interested in goths due to how unafraid they seem to be in who they are or how deep they could think about things. Obviously, I'm not a goth myself, and therefore don't know where to go or what would be natural instead of "Hey, I'm here looking for an introverted goth to date." Again, I don't know if this is the right place to ask, but any help would be very much appreciated on where to start.