Roathe issues

Okay so I recently reset and I don’t know what I did wrong, but I just hit close with roathe and he asked for me to reset again. When I said no he went back into anthema. And it says “I failed at convincing roathe to face his truth. There is only one option left for me now…” From what I’ve seen from similar posts you can ask Marie and Lyon for help to deal with this but in the last convo roath said. “ do not concern yourself with bothering the zealots to whine in my ear hoping to convince me to show you mercy. It will not work.” Am I just screwed here or is there something I can do to fix this besides resetting?