20 years old w/ Vaginal Dryness

I usually don’t post on here but I’m at a loss. I’ve had vaginal dryness since I was 16. It didn’t start to get too bad up until now in my 20s. I don’t get wet, I don’t have discharge and I’ve tried everything in the book.

I went to the gyno and got tested for STDs and STIs and surprise I had none. I don’t have sex because I’m so embarrassed that my vagina doesn’t work.

Even masturbating and experiencing an orgasm, there is ZERO wetness. I’ve had my labs done and all my hormones are fine. My thyroid is fine.

I’ve tried lubes and they don’t stay wet longer than 10 minutes. I’ve tried slippery elm, fenugreek, a different diet, more water, etc. I recently went to the Doctors office again to bring up the issue thinking maybe they’d just give me some cream or a pill?

I’m now getting tested for an autoimmune disease, MS, and fibromyalgia (I find the possibility of MS or Fibro to be highly unlikely since I’m currently Enlisted and serving).

Has anyone else experienced this? I’m at a loss and honestly I’m just more embarrassed than I initially was.