God I'm about to give up trying to find a trans partner

hi everyone my time to vent but I wouldn't mind encouragement or help but I'm so tired of trying to find trans people to date it like searching for a needle in a haystack I hate Grindr cause there are so many people who just wanna charge for hookups even though I say looking for something more serious in my bio so idk what to.do is there other apps I should try or should I just give up