I’m at a crossroad.. :(

Okay so I met this guy at a bar back in February and we’re still seeing each other on a regular basis. The night we met I let him stay the night at my place and we didn’t do anything but cuddle and then when we woke up we laid in my bed for hours just talking and sharing our music together. He’s came over at least once a week pretty much every week since we met and we have gotten sexual. We’ve only been out once but we just went to a park and chilled. I’m quite literally so busy with work and school and almost every single weekend when he’s off work, I have to work and he’s been telling me he wants to take me on a date on the weekend because that’s obviously when he’s off. I’ve really started to develop feelings for him and it’s pretty clear that we both really like each other but lately after he spends the night and we have sex he doesn’t text me for days. I will say that I’m not the best texter as is and I don’t like to seem clingy because at this point I don’t know if he’s just using me for his pleasure. Like he’s such a nice man, he treats me so well and I don’t see him being the type of guy to cheat but I don’t even know if I can be mad at him for being with other women if we haven’t even talked about wha we are. I’ve been meaning to ask and make it super clear about our relationship but it genuinely seems like it’s developing into a secure relationship but lately like I said he’s just not texting me. Like we use to text each other about our days and just talk but that’s not happening. I was the last person to text but it wasn’t really something he could have responded back to, it was a conformation from me. But still I have high standards and expectations so I kind of feel like if he really wants to he would text me just asking about my day. I know that I need to talk to him about what we are but I just want some advice on how to feel about all this. Because the thing is that when we’re together it seems so secure and after having sex he’s so sweet, kisses me on his way out, cuddles, all the things but like I can’t keep letting him just come over because he wants to be pleased and then I don’t hear from him for days. Like he came over Tuesday night and I still haven’t heard from him. And also I’m just like maybe he feels the same way and is waiting for me to text him so maybe I should. I just need some advice.

Also I’m off this weekend so I’m hoping he will take me out.