More than just a hookup!

Is this just like a free-er version of grindr or archer? Look men look at sex as a physical and need to see everything I get that, but like do you want to have a conversation atleast? What’s wrong with two men interested romantically getting a cup of coffee. Also it literally seems like everyone just wants a 49 inch size package in the others pants to take them to pound town to clap some cheeks, like fuck I have blocked so many people on Reddit from this subreddit alone. Let’s have a genuine conversation first, I’m not saying wine and dine me but can you come up with something other then “pic” and “can you host” or “hey” or even what the fuck do you mean can you host, everyone is living with 2-12 people else because rent and mortgages are out of this world. Like I swear there’s nothing wrong with sex I just need a little bit more conversation to excite me is all! :)