does love really deserve this

no matter how i think about it i still don't understand why people do fight for love or think love is just the only advantage in life , ur going to die and everyonr is going to forget u inluding the love of ur life and maybe they could even find a new partner after u , my idea is that we were born alone and we're going to die alone so why are bringing someone with u ( if u died first it's his agony and if he died first ur going to suffer ) can people just understand what i'm saying yes it may be hard to live alone ur going to live in agony for ur whole life but don't u think it's better than feeling like staying in the paradise for a short time then after it going back to the real life but bringing with u just suffering and loneliness , my point is just we're meant to be alone cuz like just after ur death ur going to be forgotten even if u are some kind of genious or even elon musk or whatever , people will eventually forget u like u never existed so why are trying to work hard and fiund a lover or ur soulmate when u know it's ue doom