Confused ?

OK so I was dealing with this Taurus guy (first ever) he pursued me for about a year before we started talking .i’m a cancer girl & for about a whole month we’ve been talking consistently like by consistent I mean multiple phone calls every single day. We’re on the phone all day and falling asleep with each other at night on the phone .

He works a lot so we typically are on the phone while works the last time we went all with each other for like 14 hours straight and everything was going good. I was in a rough situation and wanted to talk to him about borrowing some money from him, but I never got to ask whenever I told him I wanted to talk to him about something important he got really weird and like low-key be dodging me after the third time he dodged my question I got upset & along with the stress that I was having in my personal life I sent him a voice message and basically told him that like I felt type of way and that he wasn’t space for me and that it just wasn’t working for me right now.

( I didn’t mean it)😭 but anyway he never responded to the voice message so the the next day after some space went by I reached out to him and let him know that I didn’t want me and him to stop talking that I was just a little overwhelmed with my current situation, but that I had figured everything out, so I called him and he wasn’t answering so I asked him why he was ignoring me and he said “ I’m not ignoring you You told me this wasn’t working for you so I’m minding my business “ which I replied “I told you I need to support, but if you would rather mind your business then understand mine, I see how it is “

He then brought up something irrelevant which went nowhere and then over the course of the next four days I sent about three messages basically telling him that I would like for us to talk he replied none of them i’ve never talked to a tourist before, but I hear they could be very stubborn so like advice or should I just move on? To add contacts we have not been intimate.

Posted Apr 10, 2026, 12:55 AM UTC

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