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Iron-Tyrant

31 [M4F] #Online - EST - Goofball, Sarcastic, Introverted Guy looking for Nerdy, Expressive Gremlin to hang out, maybe game and voice call with.

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Hey there, proverbial gremlin who has jumped into this post to investigate! First of all, I'm glad I could snag your attention for this moment, I appreciate you taking the time to read this. I'm a quiet, down-to-earth and open minded guy who has been feeling the pangs of loneliness the last few weeks.

Though I'm not looking for anyone to fix this, and I'm only as desperate as making a reddit post. (Which could be heavily, but you're also here reading it for your own reasons, haha.) I've been wanting someone to sleep call with, inspire me to make witty remarks towards and otherwise just spend time with.

I realized recently that I don't really want a fling, or to be stuck at surface level with someone. I want something deep, I want someone I can cling onto with time and bother with messages every day.

In terms of appearance, I'm really not too picky I don't believe. I've gotten some, uh, messages lately about not giving a physical description of myself, and while I do think attraction is very important; I am also looking to start something primarily online. Though, to give a brief description, I am 186cm tall, 280lbs with current goals of losing weight. I am Caucasian, with brown hair (that I keep buzzed) and a reddish brown beard (That I do generally prefer to keep shaved.)

For you? Well, really, I sort of have a soft spot for glasses and that's generally it. I have no racial bias, and generally fall heavily for voices over anything else haha.

For hobbies, well, right now I've been gaming. Been trying to get back into FFXIV, but I am a fiend for ARPGs, and also love watching people play streams. So if there's anything you've wanted someone to join you as a spectator for, let me know! I also am a huge fan of watching absolutely anything, especially if it's something the person I'm watching it with has been excited for.

!Now, for as to why I've marked this explicit. I will state, it's not primarily what I'm looking for. However, quite a few times, I've made jokes that were too crass or went over a line, and I really don't want to give people the wrong idea. I can be lewd, make adult jokes and flirt often. But in all reality, I need an emotional connection of some type before I try to get frisky.!<

!If it is something that happens down the line, I will warn, I may not be compatible with everyone. I'm a dom, and enjoy concepts that involve CNC, bullying and similar kinks. This is less for now, and more so to warn anyone who reaches out in hopes that I'm someone I'm not, sexually.!<

If you have gotten to the end here, thank you for reading! If you respond, please tell me something about yourself. A lot of people who have reached out haven't even given me an age, which is uncomfortable and suggests a complete lack of effort. Hope to hear from those interested.

Posted Apr 10, 2026, 12:56 AM UTC · locked

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