Attachment theory is neuroscience and not tiktokology

it is not a framework or a guide.

it is neurobiology and neurochemostry.

it is objective.

if someone puts their hand on a fire and withdraws it to stop their hand burning, are they good or bad?

if they are slow to react, are they good or bad?

applying subjective morals to attachment theory is pointless.

this is not about who is better at relationships. or who can find love. or who is good or bad.

this is about brain shapes. neuron pathways. the HPA axis.

this is not tikotokology. this is neuroscience.

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0010945220300356