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krmaml

Philippines question: Need serious advice on hooking up with single moms from dating apps in Cebu

The Philippines

I'm a below average looking, short guy in his late 20s from the UK

I am only interested in hookups, short term flings & FWB

I'm in Cebu and getting a tons of matches and good conversations on Tinder but mostly with single moms in their late 20s to 30s. Many also agree to meet up.

Problem: These women explicitly mention "Serious relationship only" in their bios.

Sadly I don't match with the younger carefree, adventurous type girls who are open to hookups possibly because I don't meet the superior looks benchmarks for girls seeking hookups. These single moms might see me as the provider type.

Question

How realistically is it to hookup with these single moms? Like, my ideal scenario would be I feign some relationship interest, I take them on a good date, spend some money so they get impressed and I can bring them back to my apartment. How realistic is this?

I can then just string them along for a while until they just leave themselves. I can build a roster of these women over time.

I have heard some average looking, medium height White men say that its really easy to get laid on 1st and 2nd dates here from dating apps in Manila and Cebu. I'm below average and short though

Please help

Posted Apr 10, 2026, 12:58 AM UTC

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