Firm, yet kind. Demanding yet caring. Funny when desired, serious when needed.
Ever present, like a hand on your lower back, reminding you to stay upright and carry yourself properly. Is this what you're looking for? If it is then maybe you should continue reading.
My experience as an online Dom goes back a few years now, with a handful of dynamics, some longer some shorter. Every dynamic is unique to the people who are part of it, and some were saw a faster development with a shorter duration whirl other, like the last one, lasted a couple of years, and reached a depth I was even surprised by. At the moment I'm looking for something more akin to this second kind, something that develops through a reasonable amount of time and becomes all-encompassing.
I've had experience with various degrees of control and power exchange, from a light influence for someone seeking guidance to more intense forms of control, up to basic bodily functions. And to be honest, this is the ultimate kind of control I enjoy. Total, complete and (almost) unconditional trust and power exchange. The idea of being a constant presence throughout my subs life, a voice, a guide, a reminder of their place. A hand on the back of their neck but at the same time a craftsman working on a project. Pushing them to do what is good for them, what is expected from them, knowing that ultimately every task, every praise, every punishment, every act of humiliation is to be meant as a catharsis ' express their true nature. I believe in the positive pon discipline, and I tend to avoid any form of . Being strict doesn't mean to be at someone, and a punishment is a means to make re-establish and order that was temporarily broken, not a way to express frustration
Posted Apr 15, 2026, 4:15 PM UTC · locked